How does one succeed in life?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What are the psychological reasons behind an extreme obsession with another human being?

What I need from you?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

How do flat Earthers explain the existence of other spherical planets?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

Do not set goals—set systems.

Why cant I breathe when I sleep on my back, I can breathe if im on my side or stomach but I feel uncomfortable since either my neck is twisted or my back is in pain, im physically healthy and my surroundings are clean so whats the problem?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How is it, in the USA, a country with 334 million people, the choice of President comes down to two aged men, one of whom is a liar as well as a criminal, one who appears to be on his way to dementia. Surely a democratic country can put up better?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Does not procrastinate.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How would you feel if your girlfriend had dick pics on her phone?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Making more friends is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Who was the guy that had sex with the AIDS monkey?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

That's it for today.

Why do I sweat (mostly on face) when I eat usually spicy food?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Procrastinates a lot.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?